Though I’m against any kind of reservation, but feel inclined towards this bill. Reason being, it will help women who has been deprived of their equality with men. More Importantly it will help them to stand up and work shoulder to shoulder with their male counterparts. Being from a Sikh religion, where our Gurus has taught us that Females are NO less than males. They said –

ਸੋ ਕਯੋਂ ਮੰਦਾ ਆਖੀਏ
ਜਿਤ ਜਮੇ ਰਾਜਾਨ

meaning thereby, we should NOT say any bad word/thing to women when they are the one who gives you the BIRTH. Your whole identity/being is coz of them. You must have the HIGHEST regard for them.

Now, coming back to yest. events, in the evening I came to know that after Voting on Women’s bill, It has been passed. I was feeling very happy, atleast something has started for the betterment of the women. For those, who has missed my earlier post about Plight of Indian women, you can read here

I was watching the Interview of Sonia Gandhi with Barkha Dutt from NDTV. She said a very beautiful thing:

Its NOT the victory of any party, but the victory of ALL the women’s in India

Though her party people are going gaga over this, but she doesnt want to give the credit to herself but to the entire nation’s women.

Lastly, I congratulate ALL the women’s of India. Though the road ahead is not smooth as this is just a baby step towards what we wish to see.

Next Day, i bought the newspaper and it was written that cause for the blast is Bursting of LPG cylinder and by the time i reached Pune i.e. around 11:30PM, it was confirmed that it was a terrorist attack.

I also came to know that people burn the posters of Bal Thackeray coz the state govt has said that it was due to his threat of stopping the screening of the movie i.e. “My Name is Khan” that the state govt had to deploy the police on the theaters, so that the screening of the movie goes smooth.

I’m wondering what kind of Govt is this? For this govt, entertainment is a bigger issue than the lives of innocent people?

When they already had the intelligence report that there are possible terror attacks in Pune then why did they remove the security personnel from the sensitive areas?

Now another story is going around that Terrorists got panicked, but how can any person panics when his/her only motive is to die?

When will this govt stop fooling around and start taking the citizens seriously? When will this Govt stop blaming others for their negligence and Failures?

What are your thoughts on this, do write

Perhaps not even 1 percent.

Yes, not even a 1 percent.

So what does this mean? Does this mean that others who has started something are not capable? Well, certainly not. That does not mean any such thing, that means others have stopped exactly on the edge. Had they gone further, they would also have tasted success.

Though there will be many factors which contribute to their success but i will not go into that details. Coz for every single factor there have been BOOKS written by well versed authors.

Point that i want to highlight is – We should not get tempted by those stories but should only do those things wherein we know that, even if we have jump from that edge, we can do that.

To this my friend said – India should legalize abortion, or maybe govt should promote it. I asked – why? He said, it will solve two purpose i.e. 1) It will control Population and 2) Very Important – it will give women their share of respect.

1) How it will control population – lets say abortion is legal in India, more n more people will abort female infant foeticides and after 10-15 years, for every 4 males there will be 1 female, which means out of 4 only 1 will get married. In other words less population.

2) Very Important – it will bring women out of their plight which they are going thru at present. When, for every 4 males there will be 1 female, then people will start respecting them. They will be appreciated. They will be acknowledged. They will be given their share of honor. They will be treated them like princess’s, thus ending their misery and plight.

People – post your comments and let us know what you think about this?

1) Why someone/something is always far is coz if that someone/something is near to you, you will loose the importance of that. Perhaps this is what happens with most of couples who are in Love. Till the time they are far, they VALUE each other, the moment they start living together soon they start loosing the importance of other person and they start growing apart.

2) Existence will give you that only when the time is right and when you needed it the most. When desperation is at his best, if at that point of time you get what you love, it will give you a exp. which cant be forgotten. A blissful exp. Those will be the precious moments which you can cherish thru out your life.

Maybe not many, so thought of posting it here. First the Lyrics:

Now the story:
Who will save you poor one (to a rescued girl)
Dullah Bhatti is here for you (He rescued the girls who were abandoned and rejected after kidnap!)
The Duallah married off his daughter (the rescued girls were adopted by him as his daughters)
He gave a measure (sher about a kilo)of sugar!
The girl is wearing bridal red dress!
But her shawl is torn (poor and soiled-girl has been raped?)!
Who will stitch her shawl(repair her reputation)?!

The maternal uncle made sweet ghee bread (choori)! (maternal uncles were responsible to vouch for chastity of the girl)

The landlords ravished it (meaning the girl kidnapped by rich moghul landlords!)!
He made the landlords eat a lot!
Lots of innocent guys came (poor grooms)
One innocent boy got left behind (the poorest of poor!)
The soldiers arrested him! (Indicated that he was in collusion with Bhatti the rebel)
The soldiers hit him with a brick! (tortured him)
Give us lohri (gifts) ..long live you couple!

According to Wiki – Perversion is a concept describing those types of human behavior that are perceived to be a serious deviation from what is considered to be normal.

Are there ONLY Sexual Perverts? Well, I think not. I like to categorize so i will do that now, as well. According to me there are 3 types of Perverts:

1) Sexual Pervert
2) Power Pervert (Read Politicians)
3) Limelight Pervert (Read Celebrities)

1) Sexual Pervert – I feel people already know so much about this category that i should let them into their fantasy world.

2) Power Pervert – There is a general thinking in India that if you have the Power, no matter what you do, you can get away with it. Coz till recently, this use to happen. People having some power become sooo SHAMELESS that even if you catch them Red Handed, they will straight away deny the FACT that its not them.
I would like to mention here 1 incident, which took place couple of months back at the AGM of our society (building) where I stay. I raised 1 point saying that it was agreed in the last AGM, this Secretory(Old man which is a Power Pervert) completely denied it. When I confronted other members, every member who was present was saying that it was Agreed but this Secretory was completely Denying it. Then I have to get it in WRITING so that next time, if he deny, i will show him his handwritten letter.

3) Limelight Pervert – There are people who can do anything to get into the Limelight. They will do Bad mouthing, will abuse anybody (if you have seen roadies/splitvilla – you know what I mean), and they can even kiss a stranger just to get some limelight.
E.g. To name a few Rakhi Sawant, Sherlyn Chopra ..etc. Just to get some limelight and get noticed, they make these kind of remarks – “Jo Bhagwan nahi Deta Woh Doctor Deta hai”. They will do all kind of stunts just to stay into limelight.

I would like to know your opinion or if you want to add anything.

Here’s why your business needs to have a Google account:

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• Impressions: The number of times the business listing appeared as a result on a Google.com search or Google Maps search in a given period.
• Actions: The number of times people interacted with the listing; for example, the number of times they clicked through to the business’ website or requested driving directions to the business.
• Top search queries: Which queries led customers to the business listing; for example, are they finding the listing for a cafe by searching for “tea” or “coffee”?
• Zip codes where driving directions come from: Which zip codes customers are coming from when they request directions to your location.

Google Analytics (www.google.com/analytics/): Google Analytics is a web analytics solution that gives you rich insights into your website traffic and marketing effectiveness.

Powerful, flexible and easy-to-use features now let you see and analyze your traffic data in an entirely new way. With Google Analytics, you’re more prepared to write better-targeted ads, strengthen your marketing initiatives and create higher converting websites.

Google Docs (docs.google.com): is a free, Web-based word processing, spreadsheet, presentation and form application offered by Google. You can import your existing documents, spreadsheets and presentations, or create new ones from scratch. You can invite people to your documents and make changes together, at the same time.

Google Calendar (calendar.google.com):

• Share your schedule- web based
• Get your calendar on the go
• Never forget another event again with built in reminders via email or text
• Send invitations and track RSVPs
• Sync with your desktop applications(Outlook, iCal and Sunbird)
• Work offline

Google Mail or GMail (mail.google.com): Gmail is the Google approach to email and chat. Practically unlimited free online storage allows you to collect all your messages, and Gmail’s simple but very smart interface lets you find them precisely and see them in context without effort. POP and powerful IMAP access bring Gmail to any email program or device.

And I’m not even going to get into Google Wave, AdWords, or AdSense. If you want to read more about ALL of Google’s tools, check out their Google Business Solutions page.

Bottom line — no business but especially no small or local business can afford not to take advantage of Google’s free tools. Don’t miss out.

Drew McLellan, The Marketing Minute, Oct 2009

I have always wondered about how these dreams come and how these changes our life. So, I decided to put them into 3 categories which are as follows:

1) Which comes automatic i.e. which God/Existence want to show/give us
2) Things which are in our Sub-conscious mind
3) Things that we see while we try to sleep during the night.

1) Dreams that comes automatic and can change your life: Am sure, everyone has seen this movie “Avatar”, even in that movie they have shown that every person is connected to God/Existence. It is just that during our day-to-day life somehow we stop listening to God/Existence. Then these things come as Dreams to show whats gonna happen in the future. Or if something has happened in the past and we are not able to understand then how and why it has happened.

2) Things which are in our sub-conscious mind: There are six functions of the subconscious. One, as a memory bank (like a computer), two, to regulate involuntary functions (heart, thinking, etc.), three, as the seat of emotions, four, as the seat of imagination, five, to control habit, and six, as a dynamo –directing energy that motivates us.

To understand how this works, first you must understand the four states of mind. We are in the beta state for most of our waking hours. Our brain radiates these waves (13 cycles per second, often greatly higher) when we are thinking, reasoning or engaging in problem solving. As our brain waves slow to between 8 and 13 cycles per second, we enter the alpha state of mind. The door between our conscious and subconscious mind is opened, and it becomes easier to access the memories and storage of new information. This is also often referred as the meditative state, in which the mind and body become so relaxed. We are also more suggestible in this state.

Below the two conscious states are theta (between 4 to 8 cycles per second), the dream state, and delta (below four cycles per second), which is deep sleep or total unconsciousness. We are actually familiar with these states since we must pass through theta on the way to and from delta. Likewise, we must pass through alpha on the way to and from sleep. When we are just going to sleep but not quite there yet, or just awakening but not yet awake, we are either in Alpha or theta.

3) Things that we see while we try to sleep during the night: These can also be called as our wishes. We try to imagine those things that we have wished to come true. We create our own imaginary world and do the things how we want to do. e.g. If i want to be with a person whom I love, first i will create the circumstances of how we will meet, after meeting what we will do, where we will go ..etc..etc. So everything is happening in the imaginary world.

I dont know what should i call this year as – Good or Bad. Coz soo many things had happened that its very difficult to decide whether the year was good or bad. But one thing is for sure, memories will be there unless i turn into “Amnesia” (loss of memory) patient.

At times i use to feel, why it is happening to me? At times, I felt whatever has happened or is happening, is for a Reason. At times, I feel that its your energy and will flow in whatever direction you want to but then you have to bear the consequences. At times, I feel that all i can do is Pray to Existence/God/Super consciousness for the well being of everybody.

I dont want to wish for anything but only STRENGTH so that i can accept whatever is/will happen to me or to those people whom am connected with.

My only wish and resolution for the New Year is – God! please bring Peace and Harmony in everybody’s life so that we can make a better place for ALL the living beings.